Continuing our bad behavior series, in this post we turn to Owners. While Owners can often be the victims of bad Boards , they also can have their own flavor of bratty behavior. In today’s post, we look at Condo Association Owner bad behaviors that can end up rubbing everyone the wrong way.
#1: Showing Up to a Board Meeting Just to Complain – At the End!
There are many different Owners you can see at Board meetings – some good, some bad. One of the more annoying Condo Association Owner bad behaviors are those who just show up to complain – but time their arrival for the end. Their apathy towards understanding how the Condo Association is run is such that they can’t even be bothered to sit through a single meeting. You’ll never see them again, but they will show up, complain for a set piece, and vanish into thin air. Surely, their motivation is to make things better and not just rant. Not.
#2: Not Scheduling Things Properly
When you live in a Condo Association, you are subordinated to the Association. There are a variety of Bylaws and rules that control how you live. When you bought that property, you agreed to those rules. And yes, that means inconvenience, and it can mean dealing with a difficult Board. However, it is not a license to sloppily schedule things. Owners who display this bad behavior are the ones who need Board approval for a property modification – they scheduled their contractor three months ago but didn’t email the Board until three days before the contractor was set to arrive, demanding immediate approval. Sorry, that’s not how it works. Or the ones who knew they were moving for a month and demand the freight elevator a day before the movers show up. Nope. Sorry folks, you bought into the Association, you have to play by the rules.
#3: Demanding Special Treatment When Selling Their Property
For some Owners, once they decide they are out, any pretense of following the rules is gone. Everything is about them. They want special accommodations, special treatment – and they want it NOW. With this flavor of Condo Association Owner bad behaviors, the entitlement kicks in, and the politeness checks out.
#4: Owners Who Are Under Contract and Then Show Up to Talk Shit
Even worse than the above are the Owners who are under contract – a stone’s throw from leaving the Association – and begin talking shit. They might come to meetings, they might post to social media – they’re out and they have no qualms about letting everyone know. Even when dealing with a bad board, this is one of the most cowardly of the Condo Association Owner bad behaviors. If your Board was so bad, rally your friends and lead a resistance. Don’t wait until there’s no consequence to say your piece. It’s cowardly and everyone knows it.
#5: Owners Who Complain About Things the Board Has No Control Over
This is a tough one, but a frustrating behavior nonetheless. Because the Condo Association is essentially local government, it is not uncommon for the Association to become the whipping boy for Owners with an axe to grind elsewhere. For example, Owners keenly feel the impact of things like fire regulations, towing laws, or even the impact of minimum wage increases – and they will show up and blame the Association. Yes, we feel your pain, but at the same time… go to the people who can actually do something. The Board has a meeting to run for the things we ACTUALLY control.
Bad Owner Behavior Hurts the Association
Owners are going to do what they do. Many are dedicated to the Association, others are neutral, but some are just rotten. However, a Board and Management must stay strong in the face of this behavior. Even in the face of extremely rude and obnoxious Owners, keep your cool. Manage the meeting, keep things moving, be a polite professional, and lead a better Condo life.